At first you need the group for sanity
and survival. But it's more than just the 12-step group meeting
which you need, you also need your sponsor, your counselor, your daily
quiet time, the phone calls, working your steps, staying connected to a
local church, doing your reading, and staying connected to God.
But the group is a visible reminder of your recovery process.
After a few months the group will take
on the role of helping you to maintain your sexual sobriety. Now
the group valididates your sobriety. Your attendance is a witness
to the fact that you are having continual victory over lust and sexual
acting out. The group becomes your cheerleader at you get month
after months of sexual sobriety. They will applaud you when you
get your 30 day, 60 day, 90 day, six month, and one-year sobriety chip.
Later I hope the group will become
before you a part of your ministry to help other people who are sexually
addicted. As the months go by your role in the group will change.
At first, you will feel as if you have fallen over the edge of a cliff.
But your are hanging tour branch on for desperate life. Your
sobriety at first is a cliff hanging moment by moment experience.
But after you have stabilized you will
start to reach out to help others in the group. You will start
sponsoring other people, helping them to become successful in their
victory over lust and sexual addiction.
So the answer to the original
questioned is, "No, you will not need the group as you need it now, but
you probably will stay connected as a witness and as a ministry.
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