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On-The-Air with the Conways |  | 
The Harvest Show air date to be announced for Jim's interview about the re-release of his book, Your Husband's Midlife Crisis.
Please pray the Lord will be glorified through the interviews and that the Holy Spirit will touch the lives of people watching the shows and help them as individually needed. Jim Conway and his book, Your Husband's Midlife Crisis   Jan Conway and her book, The Finisher   |
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Annual Chat Room Retreat November 5-7, 2010 Yorba Linda, California Retreat Description
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Orange County Airport Code: SNA Where has Jim been? | |
As one of the original pastors of the Village Bible Church, Jim Conway was invited to speak at the 50th Anniversary Celebration on July 25th, 2010.
Jim and Jan traveled to Carol Stream, Illinois, to attend the 50th anniversary and Jim was the special guest speaker at the church service on Sunday.
Jim and Jan are asking you to join them in praying for this church to continue glorifying the Lord and serving Christ another 50 years.
You can listen to the July 25, 2010, sermon by clicking on the icon above. We're counting down to our30th anniversary! |
| My Husband Seems Angry At Everything--Is This Normal? |
A major emotion your husband may display most of the time is anger. He is angry that he is getting older, angry that he feels tired, angry that his financial obligations are grinding him under, angry that he hasn’t reached his career goals--or that he has and it hasn’t made any difference anyway--angry that life is a big waste of time, angry that you don’t understand him or do what pleases him, angry that the kids only want him for the things he can provide them, angry that no one appreciates him, angry that God has let life be this way--angry, angry, angry. When he doesn’t vocalize his anger, he sits depressed with his negative emotions boiling inside.
If you can keep cool and objective, you can let your husband spill his angry feelings to you. That doesn’t mean that you should let him physically or verbally attack you. But you can help dissipate his anger by listening to him. Make sure you can stay calm and don’t inflame you husband’s feelings. If you can be an objective listener, you will be vital in helping him get over his anger and get on with the constructive actions of recovery. |
You can help your husband understand that it is all right to feel angry. Admitting he has those feelings is one step toward healing. He doesn’t need to feel guilty--anger is not sinful, it is just a feeling.