Midlife Dimensions


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Chat Room Mission Statement

Listen, Share, Learn, Grow, Love, Pray

Listen and Share with an open heart.
Learn and Grow with an open mind.
Love and Pray with an open soul.

Chat Room Information:

  • Rooms are monitored by trained facilitators.
  • Facilitators are not licensed counselors, but have personal experiences with midlife crisis and their spouses.
  • They have become a "second family” and take new guests under their wings.
  • Visit often and you’ll feel this is a family you can rely on for advice and encouragement.
  • Many people have found support and direction needed to help them get through their spouse's midlife crisis.

Chat Room Acronyms and Tips:

  • Your Chat Name should be your User Name if you've registered for access to our entire MLD Website.
  • Do not use real names. Choose a name that you would give a pet, car, or doll, keep it simple for everyone to address you by chat name.  
  • NOTE: CHAT ROOM Registration is separate from WEBSITE Registration, but can be the same information.
  • Use the “scroll lock” button to move the conversation along at your own pace.
  • View  edited chats posted in the "archives" section of the Chat Room anytime you log-in.
  • Guests use acronyms to speed up their conversations. Here are a few examples for you:
  • If you’re ever unsure or confused by acronyms, just ask what they mean and most everyone will respond with the answer for you. Often, by reading the context of the chat, you’ll figure out what the acronym is on your own.  Before you know it — you’ll be typing away and making use of these acronyms as well. They’re not mandatory, you can type everything in full of course.
  • I have been S from my H for 2 years.
  • We have 3 children, S8, S13, and D16.
  • I have been Separated from my Husband for 2 years.
  • We have 3 children, Son age 8, Son age 13, Daughter age 16.
  OW = Other Woman   AW  = Adulteress Woman   W  = Wife   OP = other person
  OM  = Other Man   AM  = Adulteress Man   H  = Husband   LBS = Left behind spouse
  D = divorce or daughter   S = son or sister or separated   XW  = ex-wife   GF = Girl Friend
  DIL = daughter-in-law   SIL = Sister-in-law or Son-in-law   XH  = ex-husband   BF = Boy Friend
  MIL = mother-in-law   MLC = Midlife Crisis   PG = Praise God   CS = Child Support
  FIL = father-in-law   MLD = Midlife Dimensions Ministry   PTL = Praise the Lord   ED = Erectile Dysfunction
  w/ = with   w/e = weekend   b/c = because   
  w/o = without   BRB / be right back   LOL / laughing out loud   

Read before registering for the Website or Chat Room

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  Why register for the website?   Why register for the Chat Room?
  Access to extra pages:   A "Life-Line" of friends going through similar situations.
  Chat Room Archives   Facilitators who will mentor you with Godly advice and encouragement.
  Facilitator Bios   Live chat sessions with Author and Speaker Bill Farrel.


Separate Registration required to enter Chat Room and Website.

DO'S and DON'TS for choosing a chat name (this is not to scare you, but to protect your identity):

  • DO NOT use real names.  
  • DO make note of Website and Chat Room Login Names, and Passwords.
  • DO NOT pick a nickname that your circle of friends/family know you by.   In other words, don't think "no one in the Chat Room knows me by that name, so it's safe." It's not the people in the Chat Room that need be feared.   It's your own circle that could be nosy - find you in the rooms, and use it against you.
  • DO choose a name that you'd give a new pet, a car, or a Barbie doll, your favorite candy bar, or maybe the first name of your favorite cartoon character or movie star. Examples:   "Dusty" - "Oreo" - "Abigail" - "Wilma"- "Bandana" - "PeeWee" - "Elvira" - "Hershey"
  • DO NOT use long names or guests will shorten them like this:
    • SugarGirlAnnie is always called SGA, Annie, or Sugar.
    • SomeDayMyPrinceWillCome gets called Someday, SDMPWC,   etc.

Our Chat Rooms are extremely safe to share, encourage, and ask questions.

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Chat Room Schedule Info Page

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We Welcome International Chatters.
Please connect to the World Clock to calculate your local time during our scheduled chat time.

The Chat Room is open at times specified in North America.

Chat Room
Chat Room
Chat Room #3 with
Bill Farrel, Author & Speaker
Sunday Tuesday Wednesday

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6-7 pm PT

6-7 pm PT

5-6 pm PT

7-8 pm MT

7-8 pm MT

6-7 pm MT

8-9 pm CT

8-9 pm CT

7-8 pm CT

9-10 pm ET

9-10 pm ET

8-9 pm ET

Read before registering a chat name

Privileges for Chat Room Sponsors

As a way to thank our monthly Chat Room Sponsors, we are enabling them with a few special privileges whenever they are in our live Chat Rooms.

Chat Room Sponsor * Green Pawn
1,500 characters
Maximum Message Length Before Posting
Avatars available
for use in the Chat Room.
Remain logged in room, even when you need to step away momentarily.
Regular Chat Room Guest Blue Pawn
500 characters
Maximum Message Length Before Posting
Avatars not available. Automatically dropped from the room when idle too long.

* Anyone making a recurring monthly donation of $30 or more will be granted CR Sponsor privileges.
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